My Englishness has been fleshed out here in longform on several occasions, and I’ve explained how it has both positive and negative effects on the life of a foreigner in Japan. One plus point of my being an Englishman here, I’ve yet to mention as yet.
It’s the same wherever you go, and for however long. People seek comfort in the familiar. For my American cohort, that means sticking within their own groups, and largely being impenetrable to local influence. For me, it’s slightly different. There is only one other Britisher at my entire university, and we don’t constitute a group in our own right. So, my solace in times of need, comes from elsewhere.
I have met a lovely English girl with whom I spend a lot of time, and we have in our friendship the opportunity to unwind and talk, like only two people of the sae extraction can. Through her - an English school teacher here - I have met several other English, Scottish and Irish people, and it’s become a pleasant escape from the American-ness of my home, and the Japanese-ness of… Japan. I’ll be at a gathering of these folks tonight for cocktails and Thai Curry in Hakata, before decamping to some bar or another on Oyafuko Dori - Fukuoka’s bar hotspot.
My own frailties as a human being tend to make these larger social gatherings less enjoyable. I feel that I am far better company in small groups, and tonight should prove interesting in that regard. I find it hard in those types of scenarios to impress upon people the kind of person I am, and usually seek solace with familiar faces.
I suppose most people are the same. It just depends how well you can cope in those sorts of scenarios. Some people become horribly extroverted in order to cover their complete lack of actual personality, some people hit the drink hard. Others - me included - retreat to the smokers corner and indulge in man chat to pass the time.
I guess that your ethnicity when overseas is like foreign currency. The American Dollar is waining, The Chinese Yuan is irritating in it’s unpredictability, and the British pound has a rightful sense of superiority which causes problems with international trade.
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